Pre-puppy consultations are something that I promote and believe in wholeheartedly . I have good reason for that - being prepared means you are in a MUCH better position to proactively manage normal puppy issues that you encounter along the way before they become 'unwanted' behaviour. To get the most out of them, consultations should be sought WAY BEFORE you put your deposit down - they should happen before you've even decided which breeder or breed of dog! Invest in your potential new arrival from day one, they are part of your family - take the support that's out there, it does pay off! Good trainers offer pre-puppy consultations because we know just how important that preparation is for the long-term benefit and wellbeing of both dog and guardian.

When you are deciding to take on a puppy, there are so many factors to think about. Family dynamics, home environment, activity levels and the amount of time you can give to a new puppy, as well as the long-term commitment - it all needs to be taken into account. Puppies, just like babies, need a stable environment with a regular routine, in which to blossom - is that something you can offer? Can you provide them with appropriate and suitable socialisation? Do you have room for a larger breed? Do you have the energy to cope with a high drive dog? Do you have enough commitment or knowledge to take on a working dog, like a Collie or a Spaniel? Do you have enough time to allow puppy to get used to being alone before you go back to work? If you're considering a brachycephalic (flat-faced) breed like a French Bulldog or a Pug, have you researched their very particular health problems and know what to look for in a healthy pup? Can you afford to insure your dog and if not, can you pay vet bills? If you can't say yes to ALL of these, then some more research is required before you take on that level of responsibility.

Can you honestly say that you will put the effort in every single day to train and interact with puppy from day one? Training doesn't stop when the puppy grows up - it's a constant and is a vital part of creating a positive relationship between dog and guardian. Creating and managing boundaries takes sleepless nights, eternal patience, hard work and a LOT of commitment. Puppy classes don't magically train puppies - they provide the foundations for you and your family to work on. Training fails when we don't keep that momentum up - the relationship between dog and guardian can ultimately break down and in some cases, become irreparable. Proper preparation with a good, professional trainer, can set you and pup up to avoid these issues, or at least make you aware of them and in a better potision to deal with them as they arise.

Do you have young children in the house or children who visit? If so, you also need to think about the child/puppy relationship - it's not all about the cuteness and the child having a companion as they grow. Puppies are not cuddly toys. Is your child able to understand that puppy needs to be left alone to rest and will they comply with that? Will they be able to make sure puppy feels safe and not crowded? One of the potential pitfalls of having a puppy is not appreciating just how much of a land shark they are - just like babies, they teethe for a LONG time. Just like babies, they need to try and chew on something to ease that pain. They also have an innate need to chew, whether teething or not. If puppy gets too overexcited with young children OR adults who like to roughhouse, the teeth come into play and the puppy gets told off - or even worse, we smack them on the nose, which can cause behavioural issues and a fear of human contact down the line - something we DEFINITELY want to avoid. Puppies and children can be a wonderful match - but boundaries and supervision need to be in place from the start, as well as a basic understanding of canine body language and stress signals, to avoid potential flashpoints. I like to send new guardians an infographic of the canine ladder of aggression - a simple visual to help parents and children work together to try and help puppies live in the 'green zone' as much as possible.

Puppies don't come to us as a blank canvas - environmental and genetic factors have been at play since the moment of conception. Their early experiences, just like humans, shape their lives and understanding of the world. If mum was stressed or nervous, there's a higher chance puppy will be stressed or nervous. If mum is confident and well socialised, puppy is more likely to be confident in new situations - it's a fact of life (and science). If pup's time in the whelping box with mum and littermates was in a loving and calm family home with all the normal household sounds, they are likely to be more confident and resilient than a puppy brought up in a dark shed with no access to natural light, sounds or human touch.

From the moment puppy arrives, new guardians should be setting the boundaries to help the puppy understand the house rules and what we want from him. Set the puppy up to succeed from the very beginning and life will be MUCH easier. For instance - the eternal issue of puppy jumping up, cute at first, then REALLY annoying, and potentially dangerous as puppy grows. If guardians knew from the outset that all those 2-legs-off-the-floor cuddles create the reinforcement history that CAUSES the puppy to jump, they can have a strategy in place to avoid it. Reinforcement isn't just about food rewards - puppies crave comfort and attention and when we give them that, they'll seek the same thing again. When we then reprimand them as they grow up for doing the same thing, it's no wonder it becomes such a flashpoint!

The first night for a puppy is CRUCIAL. Socialisation classes can't give you advice for that - they come far too late. If the first night has been a disaster and puppy has been left to cry in a locked room on his own, the relationship between pup and guardian has already been damaged. Think about that first night from the puppy's point of view - a new family, new sounds and smells. None of the comfort or interaction from mum or littermates. This new world can be a very scary place - with good preparation, we can make that transition much easier for them (and, in turn, ourselves).

As a trainer, a large percentage of my enquiries are for socialisation classes or puppy classes. But the bit before that is also critical, if not more so. Puppies go through a couple of fear periods in their lives, including one that kicks in at around 8-10 weeks of age. If the transition from mum to new family isn't handled well, that can cause long term effects, including the potential for separation anxiety.

Trainers want you to know that socialisation does NOT begin in socialisation class. The term 'socialisation' at this stage of a puppy's life means 'exposure to'. During their critical 'socialisation period' (up to around 16 weeks) it is crucial that we expose puppies to new situations, sensory experiences, animals, humans and other dogs in a controlled and safe way and at a pace they can cope with. To bring a puppy home at 8 weeks, but then to keep at home until 2 vaccinations are done - sometimes a month later - means a large part of that socialisation opportunity has been missed. Puppy slings and buggies were invented for good reason!

I love a pre-puppy consultation, because it shows me how committed people are to getting things right. Remember, your pup may still be a pup at almost 2 years of age, depending on size and breed. Make sure you start off on the right paw!

My name is June Eaglesham, I am qualified and certified by IMDT, INTODogs, ICAN, Canine Principles and Pet Industry Advocacy International.  I’m also a proud member of the UK Dog Behaviour and Training Charter.  I am also a student with Animal Centred Education, qualified to Module 2 level, as well as being a student with HeartDog Trainers. I am the founder of Wee Molly's Pals Pet Services, based in the village of Winchburgh, just west of Edinburgh.

My name is June Eaglesham and I am the Owner of Wee Molly's Pals Pet Services, situated in the small village of Winchburgh, just west of Edinburgh. I am a canine coach and trainer, with my main focus being on improving the relationship between dog and handler. I'm also a budding blogger and writer, with a special interest in human and canine communication and emotional wellbeing. Welcome to my first blog!

Wee Molly's Pals, named after my own best Pal (pictured below) began life in 2016 as a dogwalking, boarding and petsitting business, but it was much more than just those words - it was a feeling, a passion and a way of life. It has taken me until Lockdown 2020 to be able to fully understand and articulate the ethos and vision for my precious little business.

I use the term Lockdown 2020 as though it was some sort of festival but I am certainly not making light of it. It has been a period of fear, pain and uncertainty for so many of us. For me, it has been a period of rediscovery, clarity and SO much more.

Prior to Lockdown, things appeared to be going well for Wee Molly's Pals. From the outside looking in, that was probably a fair assumption. Even though I 'never stopped', I wasn't getting much in the way of training work and my confidence had taken a battering - procrastination had become a way of life. I had taken on a colleague to help with walks, but I was still running around like a headless chicken with absolutely no focus or route out of the chaos that was going on in my brain. I knew where I eventually wanted to be, but had lost sight of how to get there.

I continually compared myself to other, more established trainers and the imposter syndrome soon became very real. As someone who has battled anxiety and depression for most of my adult life, maybe I should have recognised those negative feelings creeping back in? Truth was, I was already too far down the path to slow down and take stock. I was actually dangerously close to breakdown (a place I certainly never had any intention to return to). I was also radiating that lack of confidence, and that came across in my dealings with clients and posts on social media - of course I wasn't drawing people in! I felt like a jack of all trades, but a master of none - years of studying, attending courses, webinars, workshops, but I hadn't found my niche, hadn't worked out my specialism - what makes me stand out? Why would people choose to be my clients? I didn't see myself as a 'regular' dog trainer, but the traditional route towards becoming a behaviourist wasn't sitting right with me either. What was I?

As Lockdown was announced, and the reality of the situation kicked in, I knew I had to act. If Wee Molly's Pals was to survive the economic downturn and continue to grow and improve, then I needed to kick myself into touch. I had to deal with these deeply ingrained fears and negative thought processes and finally put them to bed. I needed to find a positive way through and realised that I had to start with myself.

I decided to unpick myself from the inside out, work out my strengths and weaknesses, my motivators and fears. How could I do that effectively? Write it down. Until I dropped out of school, I had wanted to be a journalist and writing about my experiences has reminded me why - I have always had an innate need to investigate and research a subject until I know it well, and I LOVE to analyse. As an adult, I have always wanted to write about my personal issues to help others - this was ticking so many boxes, that it might finally work and I could be free of the negativity that has held me back!

So, I began writing a book of memoirs, as well as a 'blog' on Facebook. The 'blog' is an area I use to work on the thoughts that pop up while working through some of my emotional traumas (as well as the politics and injustices of Lockdown 2020) and how I relate them to the 'here and now'. Here isn't the place to talk about that - however, if you'd like to follow progress, here's the link - https://www.facebook.com/thisbeautifulmesscalledlife. I started the project with a sense of urgency and the intention of self-publishing down the line. Now, publishing isn't my main priority. How I move forward with the business I HAVE, very much IS.

Engaging with my memories has reopened my love of language and words, as well as giving me a better understanding of why I react to things in a certain way, but also where my skills lie. I began to wonder how I could apply these things to my business, but also to the dogs themselves to encapsulate everything that Wee Molly's Pals stands for.

Before I entered the world of dogs, I worked in the frontline of social housing for over 23 years. Starting in Ayrshire, finishing in Edinburgh, my career spanned many legal and societal changes over that time. I was 16 when I was thrown into the fire as one of the last trainees on the Youth Training Schemes of the early 90s.

This taught me the need to be an excellent communicator at many different levels, from preparing legal cases and the formal language that entails, to dealing with a plethora of varying issues in the housing schemes.

A huge part of my role was conflict management - mainly during neighbour disputes, although I was once awarded a Merit Certificate by Police Scotland for my role in a large-scale anti-social behaviour operation which saw me mediating between the perpetrators and the police themselves. A lot of work on the estates surrounded multi-agency engagement, usually dealing with integration and inclusion. There was a responsibility on me to pitch that appropriately to gain trust in some communities, depending on the issue at hand. I had to be a good negotiator and mediator, but most of all, I had to understand and empathise with each individual and use my observational skills and intuition to get to the heart of a story.

Problem solving skills are essential in that line of work. Snap judgments or the incorrect use of words in a difficult situation could be a potential disaster - so many of my clients lived on a knife-edge. Some as a result of abuse and addiction, some through domestic violence, prison release, war and pretty much any other horror you can think of. Mental ill health is rife in our deprived areas and poverty is only a single factor.

When things went 'wrong', it wasn't unusual to receive death threats, physical assault and verbal abuse - all part of the job when someone sees YOU as 'The System' and has an axe to grind (usually with a point - 'The System' sucks, but that's a whole other subject). But even when people were showing me their worst side, I had to see through that to understand where they were coming from. I wanted to empower people, not be their enforcer - the difference between a good housing officer and one that's part of 'The System'.

The realisation that I was already using ALL of these vital skills with the dogs that I work with was a bit of a revelation (and also a facepalm moment). I love watching 'conversations' between dogs and my passion is teaching that skill to other people, but I have found it quite a challenge to articulate that in an easy-to-follow package. They 'speak' to us all the time and 2-way communication is made much easier once we know their little signals (that 'yawn' might not mean your dog is tired, just as wagging his tail doesn't automatically mean he's happy) and can acknowledge them or keep them safe.

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I've started work on a course which I hope will be available on the website soon. It's a lovely little mindfulness course - the chance to really see your dog on their level. I also have some exciting ideas about how I can bridge that gap to help humans understand their dogs just a bit better.

With my renewed passion for words and language and a good bit of self-understanding, I am now in the process of a makeover in terms of encapsulating all that Wee Molly's Pals Pet Services is. I want to teach you canine wellness and how to help prevent your dog suffering from mental ill health. I want your dog to be emotionally resilient as well as having life skills in place. THAT is me. THAT is my business.

Thank you for reading! If you have enjoyed this, please do like/comment/share and feel free to give my business page a wee follow on Facebook. You'll also find below a link to MOOD Scio, a West Lothian based mental health support project, of which I am a proud Board Member. Please feel free to check them out.

https://www.facebook.com/Weemollyspalspetservices